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Dancing Around the VolcanoBy: Guy Kettelhack In the tradition of Frank Browning's The Culture of Desire comes Guy Kettelhack's provocative, honest, unapologetic look at the sex lives of gay men. Dancing Around the Volcano is essential reading for the American gay community. Gay men have long been told that regardless of their individual characters and desires, they should aspire to a monogamous model in their romantic and sexual relationships. Now, Guy Kettelhack wants to
By: Guy KettelhackIn the tradition of Frank Browning's The Culture of Desire comes Guy Kettelhack's provocative, honest, unapologetic look at the sex lives of gay men. Dancing Around the Volcano is essential reading for the American gay community.
Gay men have long been told that regardless of their individual characters and desires, they should aspire to a monogamous model in their romantic and sexual relationships. Now, Guy Kettelhack wants to "tell the truth about the sex gay men are really having," offering a path to sexual liberation that embraces the conflicts and paradoxes of sex.
Using the voices of different men who tell of their experiences, Kettelhack questions the assumptions about the "pathology" of promiscuity, sexual compulsion, prostitution, sadomasochism, fetishes, and celibacy. These personal stories are often sexy, sometimes funny, almost always poignant in their honesty, and startling in their insights. We hear about everything from hustling to monogamous gay relationships, from the baths to the private bedroom, from fisting to French-kissing. What emerges is a sex-positive take on the whole gamut of gay male sexual behavior.
Celebrating the ingenuity with which gay men manage their sexual and aggressive drives and fantasies, Dancing Around the Volcano is a passionately pro-sex book with potentially healing--even revolutionary--implications for everyone: gay or straight, male or female.
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★★★★★ 5
Some of the brightest yellowish green tent lights I've ever had
Color: Amber Spot Beam (ZD000706)
I put these on my 2022 Subaru outback the bottom middle section of the bumper in the front spread apart about 2 ft they are very bright they illuminate any reflective surface for at least a mile and a half to 2 mi on the interstate people just move right out of the way when you're behind them because they are so bright five stars very easy to install a top shelf
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Reviewed in the United States on March 8, 2026
★★★★★ 5
Well worth the money
Color: Amber Led Offroad Light
Got these mounted on the A-pillars on my XJ. The mounts are sturdy and fairly easy to adjust. The housings are built well.
Wiring is 4 out of 5; battery connection is only a foot from the relay so I had to extend the + and - about 3ft in order to mount the relay in a good spot. Plugs seem nice but trying to run/hide the wires for the lights is difficult due to the size of the plugs. Lights are bright with excellent reach and even spread. Lens are crystal clear. We'll see how they hold up against dirt, grime, and water.
Side note, the spot beam is exactly that and is not even remotely safe for on-coming traffic if it's pointed forward.
I ran these off-road and they were superb and exactly what I was looking for. Well worth the price.
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Reviewed in the United States on October 16, 2025
★★★★★ 5
Not bad for money. But the spot lens is def a narrow spot
Color: 4.5inch Spot Light, Color: 4.5inch Spot Light
I did a direct comparison to BD squadron pro with spot lens.
Pic one is 1 squadron spot lens, pic two is 1 auxbeam 4.5
Not a pair. Only one light each.
Then the video is 2 squadron pro one with spot lenses the other with combo lens.
Then both auxbeam 4.5.
I wouldn’t buy the spot lens unless you have other lights or just trying to light a narrow beam a long ways. The fill light is not good.
I say the brackets and the finish is on par with BD, not as deep as the XL80 but similar in size.
The BD XL pro is def brighter with better fill even with spot lenses. I would say 4 of these would match the XL Pro at half the money if you have the space for four of them.
But even 4 don’t match the XL80’s. But for 160 bucks it’s a good solid light.
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Reviewed in the United States on May 18, 2026
★★★★★ 5
Great quality, and very bright.
Color: 4inch Spot Light, Color: 4inch Spot Light
I installed 4 of these pod lights in the front bumper of my 2009 f150 (2 spot beam, and 2 combo beam), and I am very pleased with the overall build quality, and brightness of these pod lights. Installing them is fairly straight forward once you have them mounted where you want them, and they look great! I highly recommend these lights if you are looking to upgrade the lighting on your vehicle!
The video I have attached is with the amber lens, and the picture with the lights on is without the lens. I prefer to keep the lenses on most of the time since it does add a layer of protection from the sun, and bugs/rocks while driving. I also do prefer the amber color for driving at night compared to the white.
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Reviewed in the United States on October 19, 2025
★★★★★ 5
Awesome, Super Bright!!
Color: 4inch Combo Light
Awesome, Super Bright!!
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Reviewed in the United States on April 16, 2026
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