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一本你希望所愛之人讀過的書(或許還有所厭)【全球百萬暢銷書《一本你希望父母讀過的書》作者暖心新作】

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一本你希望所愛之人讀過的書(或許還有所厭)【全球百萬暢銷書《一本你希望父母讀過的書》作者暖心新作】: : 50,00045180 * Philippa Perry, 1957 Red MagazineThe Observer How to Stay SaneCouch Fiction: A Graphic Tale of Psychotherapy BBC Radio 4The Truth about Children Who LieThe Age of EmotionHumiliationBBC 4Sex, Lies & Love Bites: The Agony Aunt StoryHow To Be A Surrealist With Philippa Perry Grayson PerryFlo Perry

作者: 菲莉帕.派瑞  |  譯者: 張馨方


 
——人際關係是你我獲得幸福的至要關鍵——

☆現代生活最實用的關係療癒手冊☆
教你如何愛、去爭執、做出改變、獲得滿足
⇀拉近你與最重要之人的距離↼

全台狂銷50,000本・45國180萬讀者淚推
《一本你希望父母讀過的書》國際級心理治療師暖心新作
★蟬聯亞馬遜書店、《星期日泰晤士報》暢榜冠軍★

  獻給——
  經常在人際關係中受挫、不懂得如何愛人、總是懼怕衝突、
  找不到生命意義、卡在人生困境的每一個你

  ‧如何找到愛、保持愛?
  ‧如何更完善處理人際衝突?
  ‧如何從人生困境中解脫,應對變化和失去?
  ‧對你來說,什麼算是「活出滿足的人生」?

  ✺再珍惜的真誠關係,也不免會出現歧異、需要磨合
  這是一本你會希望你愛的每個人都看過的書;因為人際關係不是光憑一方就成立,而是建立在雙向的連結上。事實是,沒有哪一段人際關係永遠一帆風順──有些討厭鬼,我們未必總是避得開;即使是相互在乎的、心愛的人,依然會有需要修復關係的時刻。

  「關係中出現裂痕時,試圖修復永遠都不嫌晚。」本書陪伴你做好面對所有人際問題的準備:發展健康的自我意識,與他人建立更好的關係、更有效的溝通,令你與所愛之人更加親近。

  ✺人際卡關時,追問「為什麼」不太管用,解決的關鍵在於「如何」
  菲莉帕・派瑞是英國超人氣國民心理治療師,她憑藉二十多年治療個案的專業知識與豐富經驗,溫暖回應讀者來函中的各種現代人際煩惱,包括:容貌焦慮、求職挫折、失親打擊、戀愛未果、友誼分手、婚內失戀等。

  她給予這些真實生命故事的真誠支持與睿智建議,我們也將一步一步學習到:
  如何去愛 ⇀與他人及自我建立穩固而有意義的連結
  如何爭執 ⇀解決私人生活與工作中的衝突
  如何改變 ⇀擁有開創新局的自信和能力
  如何獲得滿足 ⇀找到內心的平靜、滿足與意義

  ✺我們與他人的關係,也取決於我們與自己的關係
  在任何關係中,我們的喜怒哀樂總不免受他人影響;好消息是,當我們做出改變,同樣會影響他人,而這正是人際卡關時得以突破困局的關鍵。

  本書沒有艱深詞彙或理論框架,而是提供簡單易懂的自救解方,教你善待所有你生命中最重要的關係──包括和自己的關係。請跟隨作者的建議:感受所有情緒(不論好壞)、思考內在渴望、大膽採取行動!

  卡關時,請練習:
  生氣時,對自己的反應負責⇀養成以「我」為開頭來陳述事情的習慣
  焦慮時,找到自己的渴望⇀記下所有心中浮現的畫面或詞彙
  爭吵時,跳脫「我對你錯」的遊戲⇀避免使用「應該」、「必須」等詞彙
  悲傷時,不任由想法控制自己⇀以限定時間與地點的方式適當宣洩
  (*書中還有更多練習!)

  ✺請謹記:原本的你就夠好了,你擁有強大力量且充滿愛,一路走來都在學習與成長
  作者暖心提醒:放下完美的迷思,也別為自己設限、貼標籤;沒有人是完美的,你我都會犯錯,只要練習從錯誤中學習、再勇於犯下新的錯誤,就能不斷調整成為更好的自己。
  
  即使在最脆弱無助的時候,我們依然可以改變自己應對的方式。許多人不明白:我們掌握生活的力量遠比想像中的還要強大。嘗試改變吧!讓自己活得更自由。

本書特色

  ⏺︎每日箴言:摘錄處理各種關係的重點,作為每日自我反思的貼心提醒。
  ⏺︎不貼標籤:不急著診斷症狀、不設下自我認知的框架,主張感受先行。
  ⏺︎實用建議:融會多方心理研究,按情境提供簡單可行的關係療癒練習。

作者

菲莉帕・派瑞(Philippa Perry, 1957-)

  出生英國柴郡沃靈頓。擔任心理治療師二十餘年,是自由寫作者,電視與廣播節目主持人,也是雜誌《紅》(Red Magazine)、《觀察家報》(The Observer)的煩惱答問專欄作家。

  著有百萬暢銷書《一本你希望父母讀過的書(孩子也會慶幸你讀過)》、《如何維持情緒健康》(How to Stay Sane),以及圖像小說《心理治療圖解》(Couch Fiction: A Graphic Tale of Psychotherapy)。

  曾參與製作紀錄片,包括為BBC Radio 4製作的《兒童說謊的真相》(The Truth about Children Who Lie)、《情感時代》(The Age of Emotion)、《屈辱》(Humiliation),以及為BBC 4製作的《性、謊言與吻痕》(Sex, Lies & Love Bites: The Agony Aunt Story)、《如何成為超現實主義者》(How To Be A Surrealist With Philippa Perry)。除此之外,也曾為《衛報》製作「知心阿姨煩惱相談室」系列動畫,並參與許多廣播和電視節目。

  現與身為藝術家的丈夫葛瑞森・派瑞(Grayson Perry)一起住在倫敦,育有一名已經成年的女兒、同時也是插畫家的弗洛・派瑞(Flo Perry)。

譯者

張馨方

  英國愛丁堡大學譯研所畢業,現為專職譯者。譯有《歐洲鬼地方》、《大腦如何辨識方向?》、《顛峰心態》、《做自己就好》、《親密關係暴力》
 
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